Confidence

 Good morning.

Looking bright and sunny.....so far. Will we have a nice day outside, or must we take cover indoors. Who knows what comes next. 

Something I borrowed from the book of faces this morning. The owner of the motorhome on the right asks why has someone come along and plonked themselves right next to them, when the rest of the park is empty. 

Came back from walk, to find out we now live in a semi-detached motorhome

Some of the comments are funny, but have you noticed that people bunch up closely to others, even when there are lots of options. In a supermarket car park I choose the furthest away from the door space, because I don't want to get my doors bashed by an inconsiderate person as they get in and out of their car. You can almost guarantee when you come back with your shopping that someone has parked within inches of you. Why, when there is all that space. 

I went to the cinema and was told sit anywhere you like it is empty. Great. Someone came in and plonked themselves within a few yards of me. I got up and moved. 

If I catch a bus I don't want to sit squashed up to someone else. I pick an empty seat furthest away from everyone else. 

If I go to the toilet when I am out, I choose the cubicle furthest away from those which are occupied. I don't want to listen to the sounds of others pee splashing into the bowl. 

It happens in men's toilets too. 😵😆😜

Why do people group together and assume everyone else wants to join them. Are people scared of being alone? It's the herd instinct I suppose. Safety in numbers and all that. 

After going through all the ups and downs in my life I have come out the other side with a renewed confidence to face things alone. I will skip Crafty Club this morning, and get lost in my own head. I am comfortable there. 

Thanks for popping in. Have a good day. Toodle pip.   ilona