tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post3561313403404608236..comments2024-03-19T08:35:01.699+00:00Comments on Love my life: Spread a little happiness. Meanqueenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-9262865847060264132020-03-14T19:38:21.823+00:002020-03-14T19:38:21.823+00:00Hi, Ilona, I've found it quite difficult to re...Hi, Ilona, I've found it quite difficult to reach the point of being able to comment on your blog - so hope this gets accepted! Just want to say how much I love your posts, and you have such a positive outlook on life. Try to ignore the trolls (I've been trolled myself, on social media - and it can really hurt) - there seem to be a lot of them about. Sad people. We seem to be living in scary times with this virus. Guess all any of us can do is take one day at a time. Take care xxJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10843787348169159250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-51555695949288802392020-03-14T19:32:01.354+00:002020-03-14T19:32:01.354+00:00Hi, Ilona - I just want to say how much I love you...Hi, Ilona - I just want to say how much I love your posts, they're so encouraging, and you have a great attitude, You are so right in what you say about the bullies and the trolls - there seem to be so many of them about. Sad people. We seem to be living in scary times with this coronavvirus. Guessing that all any of us can do is take one day at a time. All the very best to you, Ilona xxJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10843787348169159250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-21916933715246038482020-03-14T16:41:54.785+00:002020-03-14T16:41:54.785+00:00Love your positive attitude and you're so righ...Love your positive attitude and you're so right x Jane from DerbyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-48039779097909892662020-03-13T19:19:06.208+00:002020-03-13T19:19:06.208+00:00Good advice! It can be hard not to take it persona...Good advice! It can be hard not to take it personally, but with practice it gets much easier :)jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-70854465568018066522020-03-13T14:33:00.710+00:002020-03-13T14:33:00.710+00:00Thank you. I hope your enforced isolation is not t...Thank you. I hope your enforced isolation is not too difficult for you. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-59096419378151812382020-03-13T14:30:47.069+00:002020-03-13T14:30:47.069+00:00Told you there would be a troll comment, here it i...Told you there would be a troll comment, here it is. Doubt all you like, I get weekly reports emailed to me. I can go onto their web site and watch visitors come and go. It tells me where they are, how long they have been reading, and how many pages they have looked at. Some stay on for a few minutes to read the latest posts, some look back at older posts and are on for a while. I used to get a lot of viewings from a town in the South West of England. Interesting. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-51954016653793000542020-03-13T14:20:56.115+00:002020-03-13T14:20:56.115+00:00Proud to be GOBBY!Proud to be GOBBY!Betty Mchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04665783391318889236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-51745677400318418432020-03-13T11:28:53.196+00:002020-03-13T11:28:53.196+00:00I enjoy reading your blog Ilona and love how you d...I enjoy reading your blog Ilona and love how you deal with these sad peopleMrs Lnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-44706822261088136132020-03-13T11:15:49.992+00:002020-03-13T11:15:49.992+00:00I seriously doubt you have a 'tracker' tha...I seriously doubt you have a 'tracker' that allows you to pinpoint the area of a country someone comments from.noonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-76110056122795406652020-03-13T09:59:10.290+00:002020-03-13T09:59:10.290+00:00I like this post :). Trolls are a waste of space,...I like this post :). Trolls are a waste of space, they'll never get their comments published on my blog. I'm often described as gobby too, not that I mind!Soozehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03762391472811785736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-24639703175239488592020-03-13T09:09:00.879+00:002020-03-13T09:09:00.879+00:00Very well said Ilona, ignoring these people or lau...Very well said Ilona, ignoring these people or laughing at them is the only way. Being happy, of course, is another. I really enjoy your blogs and your lifestyle. Keep up the good work even in these very difficult times. Cheers from isolation in n.w. italy. Ro xxxxrosemariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02113792702189507994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-77350309725230537042020-03-13T08:27:52.796+00:002020-03-13T08:27:52.796+00:00I mean gobby in a nice way, like standing your gro...I mean gobby in a nice way, like standing your ground, and not afraid of stating your case. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-76649005234198945002020-03-13T08:25:43.465+00:002020-03-13T08:25:43.465+00:00Yes, I will fight them. They think they are doing ...Yes, I will fight them. They think they are doing me harm, but as my past record shows, if someone wants me gone, they are going to be waiting a long time. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-26724227662579515892020-03-13T08:23:06.227+00:002020-03-13T08:23:06.227+00:00No way of blocking people individually. I can bloc...No way of blocking people individually. I can block Anonymous comments, but doing that will also block those who don't have gooooglie accounts, and who use the name option when posting a comment. It would put a blanket block on everyone in those two categories. Basically I have to take the shit to allow genuine anonymous commenters who add their name. To block would exclude a lot of people. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-58037662004377529082020-03-13T06:49:27.346+00:002020-03-13T06:49:27.346+00:00Ilona - Can't you block the trolls from future...Ilona - Can't you block the trolls from future correspondence? I am sorry you had to even briefly view their contempt. Very sad person, imdeed. Catehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02653044402389501155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-29107655989829355492020-03-12T23:28:59.912+00:002020-03-12T23:28:59.912+00:00I agree - such a sad lot - truly pathetic. You de...I agree - such a sad lot - truly pathetic. You deal with them in the best way possible by continuing on and spreading happiness to all your readers.Margie from Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10103835021764804099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-79690263077895579082020-03-12T21:03:22.689+00:002020-03-12T21:03:22.689+00:00Great advice, I would wager that it ruins a troll&...Great advice, I would wager that it ruins a troll's day when we ignore or delete their posts, at least I hope it does. Ilola I do so enjoy your posts, especially when you use words we don't normally use/hear in Texas. Gobby is a fun one that hits the nail on the head when describing me, love it! Betty Mchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04665783391318889236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-79277530853649851692020-03-12T19:56:14.865+00:002020-03-12T19:56:14.865+00:00Well said Ilona I am sure this will be helpful and...Well said Ilona I am sure this will be helpful and supportive to anyone suffering any type of bullying.Sometimes just knowing there's kindness and understanding out there gives people the strength to deal with it.JennyPnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-42507004022467730282020-03-12T18:53:23.047+00:002020-03-12T18:53:23.047+00:00They must be out on day release and not taken thei...They must be out on day release and not taken their meds again Ilona.Im sure that when they are taken back to their padded cell and have got their straight jacket on they will relax a bit more.xxDebinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-59463256187449359432020-03-12T18:40:50.445+00:002020-03-12T18:40:50.445+00:00I've been bullied a lot and I now realise bull...I've been bullied a lot and I now realise bullies like to attack as they are not happy inside themselves and they are possibly narcissists and crave attention.I avoid if possible or speak out or report xflisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-6881019720494908982020-03-12T18:31:50.685+00:002020-03-12T18:31:50.685+00:00I’ve been watching the cruise couple quarantined i...I’ve been watching the cruise couple quarantined in Japan hospital who vlog daily. He does a daily live feed and gets some ridiculous questions/comments said to him which he reads out. You can tell they get to him. I don’t vlog but I know I wouldn’t give those people the time of day. <br />Ignore ignore ignore :))barb mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05545272439007153012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-67375406296301580432020-03-12T16:17:56.925+00:002020-03-12T16:17:56.925+00:00Dear Ilona, Thank you for this post and wise words...Dear Ilona, Thank you for this post and wise words. Bullying in any form needs to be eradicated. I'm glad that you're strong and able to see through these bullies. You spread joy and happiness through your blog and videos and I am blessed by them. You brighten my day. Thank you.Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02250538341114071957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-81479173148551311082020-03-12T15:33:39.902+00:002020-03-12T15:33:39.902+00:00I have got extra tracking on my blog. It won't...I have got extra tracking on my blog. It won't pinpoint the exact computer it was coming from because there are so many variables now. It gives me the country and area, so that helps narrow it down. To be honest I couldn't care less who is doing it. I have a great life, and they are very sad. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-81214718470908725082020-03-12T15:29:01.305+00:002020-03-12T15:29:01.305+00:00Thank you for your story. It takes a far braver pe...Thank you for your story. It takes a far braver person to walk away and distance themselves from the bully. Meanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3556657999892839298.post-11550816341166749562020-03-12T15:25:39.927+00:002020-03-12T15:25:39.927+00:00Thank you for reading, Ellen. xThank you for reading, Ellen. xMeanqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705837426373680532noreply@blogger.com