A lesson learnt.

Good morning. An early walk this morning. A test drive for a new hoodie. It was fabby warm around my ears. Better than a bobble hat. Back for breakfast, porridge and fruit, now I have to pick the seeds out from my teeth. 

This video was sent to me by a long time follower. We speak on the phone so she knows which ones to send me. We are singing from the same song sheet. 

I will share it here because the message resonates with me. Patara has been a yoootoober for a long time. This video has had 67,000 views in four days. She is a homesteader, she looks after her family, friends, and animals. A very busy lady. 

Her message is that she will not be sucked into someone's circus, and she will not participate in their drama. Stay in your own lane and concentrate on your own life. This is her advice to those who are, what I would call nitpickers looking for a verbal punch up. 

I get called out for deleting comments, and even posts. Well after listening to this lady, I will be doing more of that. I am not interested in trying to pander to those short sighted and short tempered people who are intent on disrupting my life. My life is sorted, I am happy where I am. 

Thanks to the reader who sent this. I have taken what Patara has said on board. I have given people a chance to have their say, remember 'Thinking about it', 21st October? 2,000 views, and 90 comments. I answered a lot of comments, I also deleted a lot. It's not going to happen again. I am not going to waste my time trying to be fair and reasonable. You go your way and sort out your own problems. 

Now I will put my clocks back one hour, and think about what I will do with the extra hour. 

Have a good Sunday. Toodle pip.   ilona