I wish they would stop fannying around. In the meantime thousands are arriving every day. What a farce.
Tuesday, 3 November 2026
Fannying around
The great escape
After five days at the hotel, we had to check out. But hey, all was not lost. I had managed to snare a handsome young man who had an apartment, so we didn't have to sleep on the beach. We were invited to stay with Chemari. I don't know if that is the correct spelling but that is how you say it. He was French, and had a job working on the beach renting out pedaloes.
Our job searching continued. After a month, still nothing. Our money was running out. Not to worry, Chemari bought the food and we had a roof over our heads. Another month and Janet was getting very worried. She rang her parents, and they paid for a return flight back to the UK. I couldn't do the same because my mum had no money to spare. I was on my own.
For something to do I used to go to the beach and sit with Chemari while he did his job. Hence the photo. I remember one day I got chatting to an English man who came to hire a pedalo. It was such a relief to be able to speak to someone in my native language, without gesticulating every word.
Chemari became very agitated about this and was very angry that I should be speaking to a male on his own. That was the first time I saw jealousy on his face. I had to be careful after that. I didn't want to get thrown out of his apartment.
Another month went by and I knew I had to leave and go back to the UK. But how to do that when I had very little money left. Chemari didn't know that I was plotting how to get away from him. He wanted to own me and I didn't like that. He wanted me to stay there forever.
I checked the English newspaper every day. In the personal column I saw that someone was selling a return ticket to fly back to the UK. This woman had already got a job lined up to go to, so she didn't need the ticket. I contacted the seller and agreed to buy it. I just had enough money.
I hid the ticket because I didn't want Chemari to see it, he might destroy it and I would be trapped. I only told him a couple of hours before I left the apartment. I explained that it was just a visit back home and I would return to Majorca. He accepted that. A car arrived from the seller to take me to the airport late at night. I think today this would not happen. You can't take a flight using someone else's ticket. Passport control and ticket checks then were two separate barriers to pass through. No one noticed. It could have also been a scam, but in 1974 everyone was more trusting and honest.
I learnt a lot of lessons from this episode in my life. I have a very strong independent streak running through me, and no one can override that. I have since survived two more controlling situations, and removed myself from two unhappy relationships. The decisions I made were right for me.
Please make sure that the decisions you make now are right for you.
Thanks for popping in. Toodle pip. ilona
Monday, 2 November 2026
Twelve
Have a good day. Toodle pip. ilona
Sunday, 1 November 2026
A Sunday afternoon pick
Saturday, 31 October 2026
No laughing matter
And, my last blog post for today is about Litter Picking. When I have done my chores around the house I like to get out for a couple of hours. Today it was Flixborough Industrial Estate. Firstly the road leading from the village to the Estate, then onto Sixth Avenue. Fairly quiet today.
Someone has been stripping wire from these plastic casings. Just dump the debris on the roadside.
The weather has been warm and sunny today. Let's hope for more of that tomorrow.
Now chilling with a video. Toodle pip. ilona
Too crowded for me
It's the Goth event at Whitby this weekend. I went in 2015 in April. They usually have two events a year. Here is a picture. Some weird and wonderful costumes can be seen. I like Whitby.
Listen to Liz
She is right of course.
Seven Prime Ministers in ten years.
The system is broken.
What needs to change?
The system.
STOP fighting about politics. Stop fighting each other. STOP being angry. Calm down.
Have a good weekend.
Toodle pip. ilona
Tractors on tour
Welcome to super Saturday.
This is a short video of the tractor run which I didn't see last night, oooops, ha ha.
Thanks to John Wilkinson.
🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜 🚜
Have a good weekend.
Toodle pip. ilona
Friday, 30 October 2026
Scrubbed clean
Have a good weekend. Toodle pip. ilona
Quacking heck
I was out litter picking yesterday, on the Industrial Estate. Most of the leaves are on the ground now so it is quite difficult to find every bit of litter. A double deck load, with a lot of glass bottles. Now awaiting collection by the council at my usual dropping off litter bin. I found two black bin bags so I thought I might as well use them. My sticky labels tell them this is not fly tipping.
I did a Billy dog walk when I came back. Good to see that carol is back from the hospital. I won't have to take Billy every day now, he is happy that his mummy is home. He can run about in the garden.
Thursday, 29 October 2026
Which one?
Wednesday, 28 October 2026
It's almost time. (edited)
Fifteen minutes to go, time is running out. This base station will be closing down shortly. A visit is scheduled for my home office to be disconnected from my landline broadband, and re connected to a fibre cable running under the ground from the road outside, into this very room I am sitting in.
Some men will arrive to do the work. I am informed that it has to be done because the wires from the telephone pole outside are antiquated and BT can no longer get spare parts for repairs. If I don't have this work done now, I might forever be banished from the internet forever. No doubt my trolls would love that to happen, but ha ha. This old lady ain't done yet.
Catch you later, on the other side.
Toodle pip. ilona
EDIT
The deed has been done. A nice young man called Adam has been fiddling around with the inner workings, and outer workings, of my broadband connection. I was mistaken about a cable having to be laid underground. He went up the pole across the road, added a new wire to it, brought it across to the house, drilled a hole in the wall and stuck the end of it through there into my office corner in the living room. I have a new router and a new box. All done while I was still online. No interruptions whatsoever. He checked everything, so it's all system go.
I had a nice chat with Adam, and I hope he has taken some of it in. I don't give advice, I talk about what has worked for me. From what I could gather he has ambitions and knows what he wants from life. I left him with a quote, 'Don't be a follower, be a leader'.
I went to the Farm Shop to buy a few items before they close at the end of the month. Stocked up on preserves. Then I paid my utilities bill at the Post Office. £220 for three months. I have had a letter from the Government saying I qualify for a winter fuel payment of £200. It will appear in my bank.
I am waiting for a call to pick up Billy for a walk. Still no news about when Carol might come home.
Toodle pip. again.
Tuesday, 27 October 2026
Solidarity.
Only one word needed.
Monday, 26 October 2026
Mean machine
I started to write a new post this morning. The words had started to flow, then I realised that I would not have time to finish it so I left it in drafts. I will revisit it tomorrow and add a bit more to it.
I am still dog sitting during the afternoon, then I had to go shopping to Aldi. I went back to Carols house after to take Billy a walk and I sat with him until 7pm. Carols daughter has taken him back to her house for the night. She will let me know when she brings him back tomorrow then I will take over, while she goes to the hospital to see if her mum can come home.
I went to the big Aldi, because there is a hold up of traffic going through roadworks near the smaller store. I thought it's best to give that a wide berth. The big Aldi is near the motorway roundabout on a retail park. There is a layby just there, it's a favourite pull in for a break before lorry drivers join the M180 to head south. This is what I saw in the layby. Lucky that I had a camera in my pocket. Take a look at this amazing beast.
Sunday, 25 October 2026
Wild night
Carol is still in hospital and is expected to be allowed home sometime today. I will walk Billy and sit with him for a while.
A comment has arrived from someone who is just not getting the message from me. Why do they keep coming back if they don't like what I say? I may publish and reply, or I may chuck it in the bin. They need to sort their own life out.
Enjoy your Sunday. Toodle pip. ilona


